tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8505108865737315413.post7785759311414620706..comments2009-08-22T09:16:31.606-07:00Comments on Sukanya: Happy to be me: Fight against extinction!Sukanyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14583955461126070257noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8505108865737315413.post-39721115190164230212009-08-22T09:16:31.606-07:002009-08-22T09:16:31.606-07:00I have saved my daughters from being
killed by my ...I have saved my daughters from being<br />killed by my husband and in laws during my pregnancy I, got married on 28th November 2004. I became pregnant in Jan 2005. A ultrasound conducted in 6th week of pregnancy showed that I was carrying<br />twin babies. Then my mother in law started demanding sex determination. I<br />and my parents tried resisting it<br />My in laws and husband got that done by deception. They knew I was allergic<br />to egg. The fed me egg laden cake, telling me that it was egg less. I<br />developed allergic manifestations in the form of stomach ache, loose motions<br />and vomiting. Next morning my husband took me<br />to hospital, which was not the same from where I was undergoing my ante<br />natal tests. He and his mother accompanied me. I was admitted to the labour<br />room. The gynaecologist advised K.U.B (Kidney, ureter, bladder).ultrasound,<br />but the radiologist did the foetal ultrasound and asked me to get up and go.<br />I pointed out to him, that gynaecologist has ordered K.U.B. So than the<br />radiologist again asked me to lie down and did the K.U.B examination.<br />After this incident my husband and in laws started demanding that I get an<br />M.T.P. My mother in law asked me many times to at least get one child killed<br />in utero. I was kept without food and water. My husband was totally<br />ignoring me turned me out of the house at 10.p.m. in the night <br /> My father in law intervened and asked my husband to let me<br />stay the night, and morning he could send me to my parents.<br />On 17 May 2005, after one such verbal abuse I<br />developed bleeding and threatened abortion, I was not even allowed to call<br />up my parents for medical help. I managed to call up my father in the<br />morning. After much persuasion by my father, my husband agreed to take me to<br />the nursing home, but he drove too rashly on the entire drive Thrice they tried to kill me or at least get me aborted after<br />which my father brought me back to my parent's home.<br />My mother in law told me that two daughters would be a big burden on them,<br />and that I should give one of them up for adoption, get them aborted, or at<br />least one of them killed.<br />My in laws and husband hardly ever accompanied me for antenatal tests or<br />hospital visits after they came to know I am carrying daughters. My mother<br />did all that. My husband would frequently fight with me even in my parents’<br />house .He demanded D.N.A test because his mother had told him that some<br />priest had told them that he would be father of one son only. As I am<br />carrying two daughters, they cannot be his children.<br />Despite all this tensions, I delivered two-pre term daughters on<br />11/08/2005.My in laws never visited me for full 9 days. Then my sister in<br />laws, my mother in law, and my father in law came to visit me. One of my<br />aunts congratulated my sisters in law. They said "God forbid, we ever become<br />bhuas of girls again" .My mother in law said, "Anyway, they are born in<br />seventh month so they are not going to survive anyway".Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18017364915802883515noreply@blogger.com